Saturday, July 16, 2011

Wedding date moved to 10.20.12

Last time we went to Caleruega, we also checked possible reception venues inside the vicinity and even the rooms where we could stay on overnight.

Veritas Hall




Rooms



Two months has passed and we still have not decided on the reception venue. Others we've considered: Splendido, Sonya's Garden, Josephine's, Antonio's, Summit Ridge Hotel, other garden type venues. We weren't familiar with the other reception venues in Tagaytay that's near Caleruega.

Richard suggested we just go for Veritas Hall in Caleruega so our guests won't be inconvenienced of travelling from one location to another. Besides, they'll already go out of their way to attend our wedding, so we thought that we don't want them to travel anymore farther. Also, not many people are familiar with Tagaytay area. We risk having our guests arrive late for the reception or really hungry if they get lost. Something we really don't want to happen.

When I called Caleruega to reserve Veritas Hall, I was told that the venue has already been reserved for a school retreat. There's no other option for us but to move our wedding date where both the church and reception venue is still open.

That's when we decided to move our wedding date to October 20, 2012. It's still going to be a Saturday morning wedding. I have also reserved two twin rooms nearest the church. Our plan is to stay in Caleruega the day before the wedding.

Now, we have an extra month to prepare :-)

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Our Dream Wedding

Like everyone else, I had my own visions of my ideal wedding. These are basically general ideas, nothing specific. I remember jotting these down in a planner way back in 2010 I think. So here goes...

Date & Time
  • September 15 (anniversary date)
  • Saturday Wedding
  • Morning Wedding (9 or 10am)
  • Other options: January (our parents' anniversary), December; 4pm Wedding
Church & Reception
  • Air-conditioned, "maaliwalas" (sorry, could not think of a better term)
  • Small venue, fit for intimate gathering
  • Small entourage group
  • String Quartet and Choir a must
  • Ideal if we both personally knew the priest
  • Meaningful liturgy
  • Somewhat non-traditional program (not too long, not boring/dragging, no dramatic moments)
  • Ideal if our host/emcee is a close friend of ours
Theme/Motif
  • Options: Autumn/Fall colors (Orange, Red, Yellow, Brown), Pink and Brown, Peach & Green, Royal Blue/Navy Blue & White
Style/Mood/Ambiance
  • Key words: Natural and Effortless
  • Casual, Relaxed, Laidback
  • Light, Easy, Fun
Gown / Hair & Make-Up
  • Hair down, half pony with the rest in wavy curls
  • Inspiration: Judy Ann Santos, Kate Middleton

Richard's Dream Wedding

Key words:
  • Classic
  • Elegant
  • Formal
  • Traditional
  • Intimate, Solemn affair/gathering
  • Motif: Gold & White
  • Not too grand/elaborate but a wedding that matches/fits our stature


Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Weddings At Work

I'm officially a proud W@W member! :-)


A colleague suggested that I register in this forum/group because it helped them a lot when he and his wife were planning for their wedding. And so I did just that. I've read quite a number of supplier reviews/ratings and this has helped me come up with a shortlist. My fellow w@wies have been very kind enough to answer my inquiries and even offered several ideas/suggestions to my wedding preps.

Cheers to my fellow B2Bs! :-)

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Transfiguration Chapel, Caleruega

We didn't immediately dive into the wedding preparations even after Richard proposed. I guess we're just trying to savor the feeling of being engaged :-) I also admitted to him that after I got the ring, I wasn't really in a hurry anymore to get married haha! Maybe it's just the ring I'm after ;-)

By this time, we both agreed to hold the wedding in 2012. Richard at first thought our wedding is going to be on September 2011 or January 2012 but I told him that it's just too soon.

Anyway, we decided to at least reserve the church and reception since this is the most important and these venues often get booked ahead of time.

Our first stop of course was Caleruega.




Upon inquiring, it turns out that September 15, 2012 is still open and it also happens to be a Saturday. Yay!

So there. We paid the initial downpayment to block the date for our wedding :-)

Monday, May 9, 2011

Wedding Church

Richard once told me that he would want to get married in Caleruega someday. As for me, I never really gave thought to my ideal wedding church or venue for the ceremony. Well, definitely it's going to be held in a church, as opposed to a beach or garden wedding.

Here's a list of Churches I initially considered:

Transfiguration Chapel, Caleruega


Manila Cathedral


St. John Bosco Parish

Santisimo Rosario Church (UST)


Nuestra Senora De Gracia


Santuario De San Antonio Parish


St. James the Great Parish


Blessed Sacrament Church (no picture)

From this list, ideal church would be Manila Cathedral. There's just something about an old church. It has a lot of history into it. It's also pretty much accessible to anyone. Minus points though - limited members in the entourage (depending on your package), too many wedding schedules in one day, and venue not very ideal for an intimate/solemn affair.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

2012 Auspicious Wedding Dates

Here are some of the things we considered before choosing the wedding date.
  1. Year
    • According to Feng Shui, this should be the bride/groom's animal sign but preferably groom since he's the chief breadwinner
    • 2012 - Year of the Dragon (Richard)
    • 2020 - Year of the Rat (Diana)
  2. Lucky Numbers
    • 8, 9, 17, 18, 19, 26, 27, 28, 29
    • 8 represents love and infinity
    • 9 represents eternity and fulfillment
  3. Availability of Church
  4. Availability of Reception
  5. Guests outside Manila/Philippines
  6. Work
  7. Period (yes, this is also a factor hehe)
We'll definitely hold our wedding in 2012 since 2020 is still far off. I also found several links on auspicious and inauspicious wedding dates for 2012. My Mom is a firm believer in Feng Shui tradition/practices and this she has passed on to me. I don't see anything wrong with following this Chinese system of Geomancy seeing that both my parents have a successful union/marriage. As they say, wala naman mawawala kung susundin di ba?

https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8shdzff7fBnS_vqzE6FNsRRWAmWZEHwuiA4wia99gjSCuwuxQIppKYzgL_BiwLekrUzg10i6yW9znzHj6AFy_0MF94UN1PA9DW0XdmUuJKZipYG7TF3HGjzvOvxYmLyDepe87pSNMyng/s1600/Auspicious-wedding-2012.jpg

http://voyager8.blogspot.com/2010/12/inauspicious-dates-to-avoid-for_15.html

http://www.herongyang.com/chinese/wedding/wedding_dates_2012.html

http://www.bestgiftsforwedding.com/blog/chinese-marriage/auspicious-wedding-dates-chinese-marriage/auspicious-wedding-dates-2012.html